Yesterday, on January 21st, less than 24 hours after the Inauguration of Donald Trump, an apparently uncountable number of women marched on every continent (yes, even Antarctica) around the globe. While my farm duties kept me from attending a march (it’s lambing time!), I was there in spirit with my sisters around the world. All day I have seen Facebook posts from other women speaking out against the march, which of course is completely within their rights just as in was within the rights of the women who did march to do so. Every woman there marched for her own reason and it isn’t up to anyone else to decide those reasons.
I can only tell you why I *marched*
*****Foul language ahead*****
“You know and I moved on her actually.
You know she was down on Palm Beach.
She used to be great. She’s still very beautiful.
I moved on her and I failed. I’ll admit it. I did try and fuck her.
She was married.
I moved on her very heavily in fact. I took her out furniture shopping. She wanted to get some furniture. I said I’ll show you where they have some nice furniture. I took her out furniture. I moved on her like a bitch, but I couldn’t get there, and she was married.
Then all of a sudden I see her, she’s now got the big, phony tits and everything. She’s totally changed her look.
Yeah, that’s her. With the gold. I better use some Tic Tacs just in case I start kissing her. You know I’m automatically attracted to beautiful – I just start kissing them. It’s like a magnet. Just kiss. I don’t even wait.
And when you’re a star they let you do it. You can do anything.
Grab them by the pussy.
You can do anything.”
– President of the United States of America, Donald J. Trump
No matter how many people try and deny it, sexual assault is a problem in the United States.
-1 out of 6 women in America have been a victim of attempted or completed rape.
-9% of reported rapes are committed by the victim’s husband.
-1 in 3 women have been a victim of sexual violence.
-1 in 9 girls are assaulted before the age of 18.
What’s worse is that the criminal justice system has failed every single one of these women. EVERY. SINGLE. ONE.
Out of every 1000 rapes:
-310 are reported to the police
-57 lead to arrest
-11 cases get referred to the prosecutor
-6 rapist go to jail.
6 out of 1000. 6. SIX out of ONE THOUSAND!
In 13 states, Connecticut, Idaho, Iowa, Maryland, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, Nevada, Ohio, Oklahoma, Rhode Island, South Carolina, and Virginia, marital rape isn’t against the law.
IN 13 STATES A HUSBAND CAN FORCIBLY RAPE HIS WIFE WHENEVER HE PLEASES AND SHE HAS NO ABILITY TO PRESS CHARGES.
I will never support Donald Trump because of the words that came out of his own mouth. It doesn’t matter if it was 20 years ago, 10 years ago, or yesterday. A rapist doesn’t change. A man who unapologetically thinks women’s bodies are up for grabs will never, ever be my president.
I knew a rapist once, I didn’t know when I met him what was off about him, but I eventually learned that almost fifty years ago he was convicted of “the most sadistic example of forcible rape” the prosecutor had ever seen and served a whopping 8 years. I knew he was bad, I knew it from the beginning, and I could see it because you can’t rehabilitate a power assertive rapist. It’s not about sex, it’s about power. Donald Trump loves power; it excites him. He ran for president because it’s the ultimate position of power.
With his power, he plans on cutting 25 grant programs having to do with violence against women. Why?
Because he thinks women are worthless.
Because he thinks they were asking for it.
Because he thinks rape is a woman’s problem.
Because he thinks women are property.
If only 1 million women marched (the estimates are much higher), 110,000 of them have been raped. I stand with them because only 66 of their rapist went to jail, most of them for less than a year. I support their right to have access to planned parenthood to get tested for STDs and seek counseling. I support their right to take back control of their bodies. I support women and I will not apologize for it.
Statistics provided by RAAIN, the CDC, and the Department of Justice